Does you boyfriend/husband following porn accounts or sexual accounts on Instagram bother you?

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My boyfriend follows many accounts on Instagram that are women posting nude photos or follows porn sites and none of the women on these accounts look like me or my body style. I'm wondering if other people are dealing with this also and how you handle it. I really need some advice with this.

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It's not like he knows or will ever kno those ppl lol

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My husband doesn't have social media, thank god. It causes SO many problems that otherwise wouldn't be an issue. I just won't think social media is worth ruining a relationship over. If it's causing problems, get rid of it.

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uh ya it would bother me. But half those people don't even look the way they are being portrayed. which is really sad. He's following a filter pretty much. I think sites like that give a misrepresentation of what women really look like and some men are just dumb enough to lolly gag around and follow it.

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My fiancé and I both agree that it is not only embarrassing and immature for the person who chooses to follow those pages, but it is also disrespectful to their significant other as the pages he chooses to follow are very public and can be seen by all friends and family - it even shows up in their feeds each time he chooses to follow one of those pages. Yeah, talk about embarrassing. No one should have the ability to make snap judgements of the state of your relationship via stupid social media choices. 
So yeah, there are lots of sexy girls on social media, that’s great. But, here’s our thing - what’s so difficult about coming across a nice photo, thinking, “hm, that’s nice”, and scrolling on by like a normal person? Why embarrass yourself and your relationship on a public platform? 
Idk, that is just our opinion. We notice when friends of ours do these things, and it just makes us feel kind of bad for them and their SO. 
My fiancé maintains that it is extremely immature for a grown man to do such things, especially in the public eye. He says that it may have been cool when he was 14, but not as a grown adult building a home and family. 
Although those are our personal opinion(s), this kind of thing seems pretty normal, so don’t feel too bad about it. As long as you’ve spoken to him about it and communicated how uncomfortable it makes you, you should be fine. If he still doesn’t get it, start following male porn accounts of your own and I’m sure he’ll change his ways nice and quick. 😉

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I allow him to because I look at them too with him..

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My husband barely gets on fb and doesn’t even know what Instagram is. And barely uses Snapchat lol but if he watched porn i wouldn’t care.

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Hubby doesn’t have Instagram but I wouldn’t care either way. I fully trust him & he trusts me, that’s why we are married 👰🏼🤵🏽
If you can’t completely trust them, why be with them at all?

Does you boyfriend/husband following porn accounts or sexual accounts on Instagram bother you?

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