IUI on my own...
Hi all.
Basically, me and my partner split about two/three months ago. We miscarried at 10 weeks in October last year. My question is, is what are your thoughts of me going ahead with <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> on my own??
I don't necessarily 'need' any help with fertility, it would pretty much be to become a single parent. Obviously using donor sperm.
My reasons behind my thoughts of this is the fact that I've been in a few relationships, and I've hated it. My longest one was about a year (my last one) and I was constantly arguing with him because I wanted my own space. I can't handle relationships, I'm no good at them. This may sound very immature and naive, but I know what responsibilities come with having a child. I know they're not easy, and I know I have to be financially stable in order to make my child's life the best it can be. Well, I work in the banking industry and my pay grade isn't bad. I was pretty much keeping my partner for the whole year, so I know I could handle a baby financially. I have tons of support around me, and would never be alone if I needed help. My mum is young herself at 40, and I know I'm young at 21. But I know in my heart that a relationship and a 'normal' family isn't what I want. That may sound really odd and wrong to some people, but not everyone follows the norm. The baby will be loved, supported and would never go without. I'd make sure of it.
If I've known for a good few years that I want to do it on my own, and I'm in a position where I can, why should I wait until I'm 26/27/28..?
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