My boyfriend just totally killed the vibe of my orgasm

So I was horny and he told me to hang up the call and Snapchat myself playing with myself and he’ll send a video of him cumming and like this is normal I understood it so I hung up the phone told my parents goodnight so I’m “asleep” I start playing with myself he send a couple videos back then he stopped so like I just got off by myself and come back to my Snapchat and he’s just went and made himself a sandwich like fucking thanks I put all this effort in getting him good picks and shit and he just goes and makes a fucking sandwich.like I had a great orgasm without him anyways but like he totally killed my vibe. What does this mean? Am I overreacting?