I feel disconnected from him

Okay. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we plan on having our future together (hurray yay such a good thing).

However, there are days where I feel so separate from him. I know I’m a whole different person, but I know him. I know when somethings up. And I don’t know how to tell him that when he doesn’t talk to me it bothers me without getting overly emotional.

Example: today something happened after he got off work and I swear...I haven’t heard from him in hours...I texted saying I was gonna shower and go to bed and he told me that he loved me and goodnight or whatever. But like...y’all know as well as I do that’s not what I wanted. I wanted him to be all like “oh nooooooo baby I wanted to talk to you.” But nah.

I trust him. He would never cheat on me. He’s been in that position and so have I and we wouldn’t do that but like...why won’t he talk to me?