First off, being fat is not a reason for not having a boyfriend. The reason you don’t have a boyfriend is because you’re not happy with yourself or in love with yourself first. Secondly, yes, you’re fat. And I’m fat, and my neighbour is thin and her son is skinny and the earth is round, just like my face. Fat is not a bad word, what makes fat a bad word is the context with which you use it. Fat is a descriptive word just like y’all, curvy, fair, heavy, etc. But if you’re unhappy with how you look, work on it. You wanna gain weight? Go ahead. Lose some? Sure! Do what feels right for you because as long as you’re healthy and not at risk for heart diseases related to weight (applies to both skinny and fat people), it doesn’t matter what you look like. You just gotta be healthy and happy with yourself. All the love and success to you! 💕

girl It doesn't matter what other people think its what you think that matters.🙂

Fat is not synonymous with ugly or worthless. Fat is a descriptive word. If you are unhappy with your body, do things to change that, whether it be learning to love it the way it is or physically changing it in HEALTHY ways, they both can be done. You seem very young, and I promise you that you will appreciate not having to deal with the stresses that come with immature boys. I’m so glad I didn’t date until I was almost 19, it saved me from some serious heartbreak. Do what makes you happy and don’t focus on being single. Just focus on learning who you are and to love yourself.

Honestly, you look fine, and the reason you have no boyfriend likely has extremely little correlation with how much you weigh.

girl you are not fat, and beingn fat does not mean you wont have a boyfriend. it’s hard i know i have the same complex as you, i see myself as very fat and big but in other peoples eyes they see it completely differently. just because you perceive yourself to be like that does not mean everyone else does and so what you dont have a boyfriend. life is not just about boys. you do you bbs x

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