Sooooo I’m curious. My man that I have been with for 3 years ( we have a 1 yr old together also 💕) has only gone down on me once.. drunkenly. He’s the second guy I’ve been with, first actual relationship. Anyways, it didn’t really get me off and I always throw out hints like “oh you can get some head but I can’t” and that kind of stuff. Mind you, I pretty much give him a bj whenever he asks and then some because I don’t mind. The many times I’ve thrown out how much I’d like for him to go down on me, you’d think it would happen by now. Lol

He was only with one other girl before me and I don’t believe they were that sexually open to many things. I don’t think it’s that he doesn’t want to, I’m not sure if it’s that he doesn’t know how ? I’ve told him we can watch videos and stuff but he usually changes the subject.

I guess what I’m gettin at, is what do you ladies do to get your men to go down on you without like forcing their head down there ??