My boyfriend and I just broke up. I'm very hurt and sad but when I asked him if we we're still cool he said yes, and that we could talk every now and then. Since we're like best friends before anything. Bf we broke up we we're TTC and I'm really sad bc now I won't have his child. I'm a very insecure women and he made me feel a lot better about myself. But since we broken up my self esteem have dropped. I've been with him for almost 3yrs and we just threw everything away. I asked him if we would get back together later in the future he said he doesn't want to put hope in my mind just in case we don't. I think I'm sick, sick as in too attached to him and I don't know how or if I should break him off in that way. I know the reason he said we're cool is bc he loves me and doesn't want anything bad to happen to me. So its like he's still going to be looking out for me when I may need him. When we first got together he wasn't 100% game for the relationship which is understandable not many men want to settle down until late 20s early 30s. Do you think he'll come back or should I just give up hope and become a crazy cat lady Lmao jk but I am really confused on what I should do next...