Discomfort during sex- help!

Hey Ladies!

So please don’t judge, but my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex. We’ve been together for quite some time, but because I had never had sex before, we waited until I was ready.

Sex has been... interesting.

We were using condoms last night and they made it so uncomfortable- like it just felt so tight and not good. When we added lube, the lube honestly kind of burned and stung.

Out of curiosity, he put it in once without a condom (and no lube) and it didn’t “hurt” as bad.

Some positions feel okay, others are not comfortable.

I don’t have endo, but I just feel really sad. I’m not sure if it’s the products or the position or me- I know the first time it’s tighter and going to be a smidge uncomfortable (I’m petite), but this isn’t the first time. I’m just really afraid something is wrong.

Please help me enjoy sex!