First off, let me explain my outlook when it comes to relationships. First there is courting, then dating, and finally a marriage. This guy and I have been courting, or getting to know each other for 3 months, he initially said he didn't want a relationship so in my head we were just friends. Then when I brought that up in an argument, he said that he sees himself in a relationship with me. For the past two weeks, our communication has went down the drain. We'd usually text all day while at work or school, FaceTime during free time etc., but recently if he's off work he won't text, now I'm the one initiating every conversation just to receive dry responses, and when I do text him he's busy playing cards or watching tv. Yesterday I asked him what were his plans when it came to me because by the sudden dryness and non responsiveness, I feel like he's no longer interested. After three months and a minimum of 5 hours a day talking I would figure you would know if you want to date me, you've learned my whole life basically. He replies," I've never thought about it". Am I rushing things? I just feel that with about 29 days per month for three months and a minimum of 5 hour a day phone calls, FaceTimes, and dates plus all day texting, at some point you should have figured out if you want to date me. Am I wasting time?