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Me and my boyfriend were planning on having sex today for the very first time (we’re both virgins) but things didn’t go as planned. For starters, I couldn’t stay wet? Like one minute I was dripping wet but as soon as he would try and put it in I would just be as dry as possible. So because of that we didn’t even up having sex. The whole thing was just painful and awkward so do you ladies have any advice on how to stay wet and make the first time less painful ? 
Me and him are both 16 btw

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Foreplay and lube. Try and relax

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I don’t use lube but if we don’t go down on each other (me first, then him so it’s easiest to put it in) it is like dry rubber on even more dry rubber 😭 foreplay is super helpful but make sure you at least get him wet with head right before he puts it in. The first time is nearly never perfect, keep trying! As you guys figure things out and get a feel for things it’ll get less awkward and way less painful!

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Get some lube, maybe you got nervous and tense when he tried to go in. Just try to relax your body so it will go in a bit easier. It will hurt a bit yes, but it’s tolerable.. it will get better. Also, make sure you’re using condoms &/or on birth control!

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I read the other comments. Idk about you. But my first time I wasnt even thinking about giving my boyfriend head or having him go down on me. Using lubes and stuff was out of the question too. I was way to damn nervous for that. It was more like wam bam done lol. It was confusing for me and for him I think. 
Honestly I wish I would of waited until I was more ready. I thought I was ready. It was with my best friend I had known for 6 years *we were dating for a year at the time*. We loved eachother. I really wanted to. We tried to quite a few times before that but I always chickened out. I just wasnt ready. But finally I just sucked it up and did it. 
If u really feel you are ready you could try the lubes and other stuff. But seriously this is a big decision to have sex for the first time. Think about the long term. Will you be with him in a year, 2 years after graduation. Even 6 months. You want to make sure your first time is with someone you know in your heart you truly love and want to be with forever or a very very long time. It doesn't feel good when you go from guy to guy to guy. Once you start having sex it's easy to keep doing it. So just tread lightly.....

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Lub,  water based.  Also focus on the feeling of it.  Don't get too much in your head. And lots of clit play

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