DH porn habits and my sexual sanity... help!

So I found out that after I go to bed my DH will stay up to watch porn and pornigraphic pictures. He then sometimes wakes me up after and ends up coming withing a minute! It's been leaving my all hot and bothered because he doesnt bother to satisfy my need. The other day I asked for more foreplay to bring me closer and a vibrator to finish the job a lot quicker... needless to say he felt offended that I wanted a vibrator... he is not seeing my reasons for not wanting him to watch porn every night and why I want a vibrator...