No pleasure during sex, pls help

So I’ve had sex a decent amount of times in my relationship and have yet to feel any sort of pleasure down there. The first time it hurt and everyone was telling me that’s normal, but after a few times all I felt was nothing . I know a lot of women have this problem but is there any advice anyone can give me? I know it helps if my clit is involved but I just want to have feeling from my g spot and not just from the clit. I never was really “into” it when I was with my partner because it always felt rushed. I know this could be a leading factor but I think weather you want to have sex or not, you should at least feel something. I talked to a friend who had sex for the first time and said it felt good even though she had no feelings for the guy. I don’t want to have to deals with feeling nothing forever.. is there anything that could help or is it just the way I am?