What’s your fantasy

hey ladies , my sex life is a little blaaa at the moment . I recently purchased some toys but the fantasy aspect of it is kinda not there any tips for some self care ?? I’ve been married for 7+ years and he just got a job out of town and it’s all me until he gets back . You could say I’m a tad bit outdated . He’s the only person I’ve been with so you could say I’m a bit inexperienced and was hoping I could get some advise with no judgement please