We have a joint bank account but I don’t have a card for myself yet. He works and I stay home. I pack his luch make dinner and sometimes breakfast, iron his clothes clean his shoes (he has a government job and NEEDS everything to be perfect) I clean the house and I take care of the baby. I’m a SAHM. I keep the house running. We set back money for bills gas food and rent etc.

We are trying to save money to move. I’ve tried talking to him for months and at this point I’m just fed up with it. He spends the money willy nilly. He doesn’t need those chips or those games or movies!! I have not spent a dime this month on me or the baby (reusable diapers and wipes and hand me down clothes so we haven’t got him anything in a LONG time). He sent me $10, that I don’t spend because I know I don’t get very much money for me. When we run out of money he’ll ask me for the $10back (I don’t remember the last time I got something for me), out of the $300 we had left after all expenses. And now we are down to $70.

Guess we’re never going to ever move. Just gonna be in a trailer on his family’s property forever. It’s midnight but I’m gonna go to Taco Bell for me and the baby cause fuck it 🤷‍♀️ and he’s not home anyway (night shift)