Unfair relationships. 🙍

Needing some advise. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now and he has all of a sudden decided on his own that it would be better for the both of us if he doesn't finger me or do anything to me for a whole month yet he still expects me to do stuff to him. I've suggested just not doing anything for that month but he is aggressive. Ideas on how I can fix it? Or just any Thoughts? 😙😙