hey all! just looking for some advice or opinions out here🙂me and my now ex boyfriend had been going out for a year and 9 months as of around the beginning of spetember. One day we were just fighting a ton about stupid stuff and we both had stuff going on in our life so we were irritated with eachother. Anyways long story short he broke up with me and we both cried for a while and I was “that girl” for a couple days after where I begged and told him we could make it work and he said he needed time to work on himself. I did around 4 days of no contact before he texted me saying he had stuff to give me so I told him he could throw them out or put them in a bag and leave them and then he kept asking to hang out and we have seen eachother a few times and he never gave me “the stuff” at his house. He still hasn’t asked for his stuff back and I have a ton of it. We have slept together😬ik I’m dumb and probably shouldn’t have but he acts like somewhat of a boyfriend when we hang out and he’s all loving and then after we leave it’s like weird again and we don’t talk. Some of his friends and I still talk because we have all known eachother since we were pretty young and they say he’s like not doing good at all and that he’s a mess. And he pretends like he’s fine and moving on to me. But I’m finally getting over him and standing my ground and not giving him what he wants even tho it’s hard to just completely lose a best friend. Do you guys think he might want to get back together or that he’s just taking advantage of me and keeping me around in case other things don’t work:/ thank you for reading this super long and confusing story and thank u for any comments!!💓