Hi all,

I always wanted to be a mum of two, always planned to be a mum of two. But now I have two kids I’m struggling to accept the fact that I am done.

My other mum friends have already given away their newborn clothes, I’m holding onto mine. They know they’re done and are relieved, I’m still not ready to say goodbye to possibly having another.

Even Hubby has said he wouldn’t mind having another.

We have decided to wait until our little one is two (currently 5 months) before we officially make a decision.

But I’m curious, how did you decide you wanted a third? Was it something you had always planned or are you like me and it was unexpected?

Edit: Also did gender play a role? I have one of each so it’s not influencing our decision at all.