What to know before my first time

Question

I’m 17 and I’ve been pondering the idea of deflowering for a couple months now and I am pretty sure I am ready. I’ve been doing extensive research on how to avoid pregnancy. Are there any tips on how to go about the first time? Maybe tips on how to avoid a condom breaking (ik that you should NOT double wrap because it causes friction and essentially breaking). I’m also pretty tight and I’m worried it will hurt too much. Any tips or stories on how you ladies went about it?

Answer

I lost my virginity at 15. Condoms breaking shouldn’t be a huge stress, if one breaks just have him pull out or buy a plan b (although those are expensive). Which leads me to my next point, only have sex with someone that will stop if you ask. Whether you’re naked, in the middle of having sex, or he just put a condom on, you both should be able to stop at any point and there shouldn’t be hostility because of it. That was a huge issue with the guy I lost my virginity to so I always warn others. I’m nearly 22 and I still wish I hadn’t lost it to who I did but the man after him instead. Just be firm in your choice and make sure he’s a good man. ❤️

Answer

Lost mine at 16. First time was a failure because I made him quit due to it hurting but the 2nd time was a lot better! Just make sure it’s something you’re ready for with the person you want it to be with and someone that makes you comfortable.

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