How do I get him to want me again?

Question

I feel like I am absolutely not doing enough for him... He says he still finds me sexy and hot and beautiful, but then we never have sex anymore and I just feel so unwanted. We're both busy, so we don't have a ton of time, but when we do, I'm always the one initiating and he has just brushed me off so many times. I just want him to want me in that way again 😔

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Sometimes when you get into a serious relationship the sex is great and happening a lot cause it's new but as time goes on you don't need sex to show how much you care. I would say you're best bet is to talk to him about it. Lack of Sex isn't gonna be the death of a relationship but lack of communication can be though. It's probably not that he's no longer interested, maybe he's just been stressed out at work and isn't in the mood by the time he gets home.

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I was experiencing the same thing with my boyfriend, and I couldn't figure out why he didn't want me anymore, and it made me feel less attractive in his eyes, and when he would deny it I honestly, and regrettably, got a little angry at him. But once I actually sat him down to talk to him about it, I found out that he was more stressed than what I actually knew. After that I was able to understand and be patient with him, and now our frequency has increased. :)

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I understand how you feel, I'm in the same situation but your best bet is to talk to him! Try to open the door a little and see what's wrong. And if sex is a major part of your relationship, it shouldn't be it should be a plus not a priority. Since y'all are always busy, that alone time together should be spent chillin and cuddling, CHERISH IT GIRL💁🏽💁🏽... Let him pull the first move once!

But y'all need to talk, talk, talk... Communication is important, he needs to listen on how you feel! Stay strong, much love!!!💋💋

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Maybe he's depressed about something be isn't talking about? Stressed? My husband went through a period of depression and it affected his libido. Have you spoken to him about this?

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I'm in the same boat. Posting so I can follow the answers. Fingers crossed for us both!

How do I get him to want me again?

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