Just asking

I was just thinking about this but it was a very long time ago. But when I was 13/14 my mom accused me of doing the dirty with my boyfriend which I was in fact not doing. And took me to the gyno twice at again 13 for them to stick all these tools in me for what reason? Is that wrong for her to do that? I know that I’m not a mom and I can’t understand but like I think that went a little too far.