My boyfriend, 21 and I, 19 have been together for 5 months and on Sunday I met his parents. He wants me to go back tomorrow (Wednesday) just because he wants to hang out but I feel really bad going back so soon and don’t want to get in the cycle of going there a lot because I feel like that might annoy his parents.

He has told me that his parents like me a lot and that his brothers ex lived with them so I shouldn’t be worried about anything like that but I can’t help but worry that me being there a lot and so soon after our first meeting will look weird.

I know some people will ask why he can’t come to my house... it’s because my family is huge and he isn’t ready yet to meet all of my siblings and stuff which I completely understand.

Any advice on this? Do you think I’m over thinking?

Like if I were to go there twice a week would that be rude/ too much?