Contraception??

What do you all use for contraception I have more or less always been on the pill but I come off it a few years ago as it was giving me bad headaches putting weight on me and completely killing my sex drive I have also tried the patchs but had a reaction to them so we have used the good old pulling out method for the past few years I have had a baby in these few years but that was planned and have never been caught out otherwise but sex just dosnt feel complete unless he's cum in you 🙄 maybe that's just me but I dunno