Fighting with Husband

Anyone else’s husband say super hurtful things to you when you are arguing, then after apologizes and says that he was just mad and he never meant any of it? We fought today about how I always feel sick (have stomach issues and take meds for it) and he said that he is tired of hearing me complain that I am never feeling well, and he said “f**k your feelings, you have to think logically not with your feelings”. I told him if he was going to treat me this way that I was going to pack my things and move back to my home state. He said “if you do don’t come back”. After I had packed a bag he freaked out and told me not to go. He said he didn’t mean any of it and that he was sorry. I told him next time it happened I really was leaving, because the stress from arguing with him makes me even more sick.