Is it ok to find yourself attractive

We are always told to love ourselves, think highly of ourselves, not put ourselves down

But, do you find when a woman does say she is attractive, people get agitated- “your conceited, your full of yourself, your insides are ugly”

Why is that? Why can’t a woman admit she is attractive?

We can find another woman attractive- but once we find out she also thinks she’s attractive- the claws come out.

A woman made a post- it was admittedly a bit strange, about how she was beautiful. The comments were wild, asking her to post pictures so they could bully and tear her down, women started going on rants about their bra sizes, commenters posting their own pictures like it was a competition or something.

The post was weird. I didn’t feel the need to comment tho, I just kept scrolling. But the comments were really just as bad as the original post.

Why can’t a woman acknowledge her physical appearance without it being a problem?

Does it upset you when a woman likes her appearance?