Do you think it's bad to have sex with your boyfriend a week after you've gotten together?

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Okay I am 17, I just had sex with my boyfriend a few days ago.. My boyfriend is actually my friend's brother, so I knew him for quite awhile before we started dating. He was my first time but I wasn't his, afterwards he told me I was the best he's ever been with.(I thought that was uncalled for but whatever)
 I feel really guilty because I promised my brothers I would never do it until I was married but I was so curious and I didn't want my boyfriend calling me a chicken. He's always hugging me and kissing me now, it's weird. I am not sure how you're suppose to react after sex but I've been acting uncomfortable, it's not like it wasn't enjoyable.. I just don't know how I feel.

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If your regreting having sex with your bf then u werent ready

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Whatever you're comfortable with is what's right for you. If you're uncomfortable now, voice that to him. Explain that you don't know how to react or how to feel. Maybe he'll understand and talk you through it.

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This doesn't make you a slut or any less of a girl:) be proud of yourself for who you are

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If you did it for you, then that's fine. Just don't let anybody pressure you into doing things you're uncomfortable with. You're not a slut if you have sex with one boy or 100. Just be safe and remember that your body is your own!

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he did all that to get in your pants that u the best he ever had was a lie , im sure he told plenty other females that .

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You can have sex the first day of being in a relationship and last a lifetime. You can also have sex after a year and he could break up with you the next day. I'm not saying that would happen. I'm just saying that males are really unpredictable, so while you're already in a relationship, just enjoy yourself. Now, if you feel uncomfortable after having sex with him, tell him that. Boys (or men, whichever you prefer) can't read our minds. He was your first time, and I'm pretty sure everyone's first time was uncomfortable. Just let him know and maybe your relationship won't feel as awkward to you as it is now.

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Me and my boyfriend had sex the day we got together but I had known him for awhile... It's all based on the connection you have with the person to be honest.

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i think if you wanted to wait, you should have. you gotta do it for yourself not others. but at the same time , im a stong believer of "shit happens" lol so idk I think for you it would have been better to wait bc that's what YOU wanted.

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Try not to regret it but think more before doing it again. Don't rush things xx

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Honestly my first time was with a guy i had been dating for almost 2 years and i regretted having sex with him. But with the boyfriend i have now, i only waited 5 months before we did it and ive never been happier. Best decision and i stand by it. It all depends on the guy, not length of time. So no, you're definitely not a slut lol

Do you think it's bad to have sex with your boyfriend a week after you've gotten together?

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