I'm so confused

Domihassan • I juts wanna be successful in life and make my dream come true
My boyfriend said I'm white wash juts because I talk proper. Like does my grammar define what my race is. Idk to grow up with slag and in the hood. He's Arabian acts like he's from the hood buy considered himself an arab like am I wrong for not talking loud and ghetto and not dressing the way a hood rat would dress like wtf I don't know what to do now