Grooming?!

Hey ladies, i always get the wooooorst razor bumps when i shavd down there, wven when i exfoliate, tried shaving creams, coconut oil, waxing is tough on my own and too costly for me to get done (hard to access too), so how often and how do you ladies do it? Any tips and tricks or products i should use? My bf doesnt seeemm to mind but i like being smooth to touch