Rape question

Kirsten
Would you guys consider this rape?
So one day, my partner of 2 years, wanted to have sex. I said I didn't want to and that I wasn't horny, but he just like laughed it off and kept going, but he wasn't being forceful. It was almost as if he couldn't hear me or something.... Anyways he just kept going, taking off my pants, whatever, even though I clearly was not horny or wet in the least. I clearly said I didn't want to more than once. 
Is this rape or was he just being disrespectful? I'm not sure if I really feel violated, I more feel sad that he doesn't have any respect for me.