Is it really just a mind thing?

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So I just want to know do you ladies believe in the whole "tight/loose vagina" thing? I honestly think it's just a mind thing because I've seen where females who have slept with over 100 men and they meet a man who doesn't know that and that man thinks it's the best sex of his life. I think guys just hear things about a female and judge the sex based off what they heard about the female not the sex itself. I don't really think a vagina gets completely "loose" and is a bad as some guys say. But I want to know you ladies opinion. What do y'all think?

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It doesn't stretch out like an old t-shirt

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Yeah the whole loose vagina thing is stupid and just a way to "slut shame" women. 
If I had sex with 50 men my vagina is loose, but if I have sex with one man 50 times its not? It just doesn't make sense.

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Well, what's the difference between me having sex with my boyfriend 100 times and having sex with 100 men? There is none. It doesn't stretch out.

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The loose vagina myth is just that. A myth. A misogynistic myth created to base a vagina owner's worth on how much sex they have had.

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It's just an attempt to slut shame women.

Notice how the 'loose vagina' insult only seems to apply to women who have sex with multiple partners and not just women who have a lot of sex in general.

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The vagina is a muscle. When a woman is turned on, it gets wet and loosens up. When a woman is not turned on, it's tight and dry. There is no such thing as being blown out. If a woman has sex with 100 different men, it'll be the same as a woman who had sex with her husband 100 different times.

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I think vaginas come in all shapes and sizes just like every other body part. For the record, so do penises. I think people have preferences of what feels good to them (or not) and some couples have better sex than others. Physical "fit" is a factor, but so are a lot of other things. I think it's possible to tone your vagina with kegels, but not to change its basic shape.

And I think it's really gross when people make judgements on other people's sexual history based on their genitals.

That's what I think.

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Omg it's a TOTAL myth designed to keep women from sleeping around and make them feel bad about themselves. I can sleep with 100 guys in a year but someone in a relationship can have sex 365 days a year and HER vagina is supposed to be perfect and mine is turned into a gaping hole? What is the logic in that? Sleep with as many people as you want, your vagina isn't going to change.

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Its a myth. But I still wonder about the porn I've seen where the girl really has a huge gaping hole lol. I assume it's from sticking big ass things and fist in there many times but idk. But for the average girl who just sticks to dicks, I don't think it does anything to your cooch.

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It doesn't change hahaha everyone's va jay jays are built different nobody is really "tight or loose"

Is it really just a mind thing?

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