What's your number?

Question

I've just started seeing a guy and he's sort of hinted that he's curious how many people I've slept with, and I don't know what to tell him (it's over 100, I was a bit of a troubled teenager) because I'm so embarrassed. 
What have y'all done in this kind of situation? I don't want to lie but I don't want him to know my number and be turned off me...

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I know u don't wanna lie but honestly if u say " it's none of ur buisness or it doesn't matter " he'll know it's high and might over think. I would honestly just tell a small lie lol does it really matter how many guys? No. If u have no stds or anytning ur fine.

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If he's turned off by your number he's not worth your time. A real man will realize that you can't do anything about it, and that enjoying sex is perfectly normal.

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well if you're not comfortable telling him, talk to him and let him know. If you want to be totally honest with him, tell him, and if he is shocked or judges you, then he is not the one for you. Girl don't feel insecure because you're scared of what a guy thinks.

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I disagree with some of these comments & I do believe this is of importance to the other person. If you two will be or are sexually active I think you should tell him & be honest. It's important to know experience & safety history of the others sex life. Also he may just be curious & that's normal too.

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How long have you been with the guy? Early in the relationship that is kind of a very personal question to ask. My advice is that if you see potential for this relationship to last, then honesty about your past will build trust and loyalty as long as you are both on the same page about the relationship and want to love each other unconditionally.

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Why does he care?.. It doesn't make you who you are by having any penises in you..  Just avoid it.

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Don't tell him if you aren't happy to - say you would prefer he doesn't know but just say it is high ?

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I'd just tell him it doesn't matter because it's not important.

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