A little help?

Neisha • Australia // perfection can't be bent, it snaps in two // 16
I know what an abortion is, I know how it works, but I'm closed minded about it when I see others bringing it up. I believe it's murder, but I want to be more accepting of it so I don't straight away think "this person is killing their baby by choice". Can someone please tell me from personal experience or just talk about what it does to the mother doing it? I know that many women get abortions because they are too young or financially unstable, but I can't stop the thought that they had sex so it's their fault anyway? I just don't want to be judgemental of others. 
Thanks 😊