Meeting two guys that you really like is hard. I don't want to hurt anyone and I don't want to get hurt. I been talking to this guy for a while let's call him Luke. Now Luke is a good guy. He plays football he treats me well but he's not ready for a certain level of commitment. Now while I respect that he doesn't pay me any physical attention. I may get the occasional hug or kiss but that's it. Recently I met a guy let's call him Ryan. Now Ryan is like a bad boy gone straight. He's proven that he's left that life behind and wants something better. He treats me great too and is all for my touchy feely behavior but I'm not sure if it's just sex that he wants from me or the real thing. I feel like I'm choosing between a boring relationship or a one sided one and I don't want either please HELP ME 😖😖😫😫