What about foreplay!?

What ever happened to foreplay? I'm in a new relationship and don't get me wrong my nd is flipping amazing and gets me where I wanna go, but sometimes I would like to be played with before we just get right down to it. He plays with me for like two seconds then next thing I know he's going for the gold and I'm just like... What the hell? 😕 I don't even remember te Lat time I was with someone who played with me for a little bit before jumping in the deep end. Anyone else?