Fear of oral??

Question

I have been in two real relationships, both of which the guy has wanted to "go down" on me, but im just too self conscious to let him. I am so concered about whether its going to look or smell weird that I can't get into it. 
Does anyone else have this problem? Have any advice how I can get past this roadblock?

Answer

Honey, go into a bathroom and use a wipe before hand. Every girl has the signature vagina smell, so don't worry about it. Guys have there own signature smell down there too. If you're self conscious, just freshen up before hand. Oral is amazing, so don't let fear stop you from having fun!!:)💕

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I used to feel that way until I had my first sexual partner.
 
If you have showers or baths regularly you won't smell unless you have an infection. The vagina's natural fragrance is actually designed biologically to be incredibly seductive & alluring to 99 of 100 guys. You can always insist on showering together first if it'll help your confidence.
 
If some juvenile fool ever says anything derogatory to you about your lady bits, just stop and calmly question him "Is it going to be a problem?" and always know you can get dressed and leave, ok? I've done it twice... First over 1 guy's remark on my inner lips being a little bit longer (i dressed & left the date), and another guy's comments over my 'hairstyle' (he quickly saw his silly mistake & back-peddled so I stayed).
 
Men don't seem to like a naked horny girl deciding to stop & call it a night... they realise pretty quickly they're going to miss out on the action! 😆

Answer

I am still super self conscious about recieving oral and I have a boyfriend who has and is still willing to do it. The smell and taste will always be there, it's a fact of life I've had to come to accept. I still worry like crazy about it though. If he's already given in the past then he knows to expect that. Just keep clean and freshen up down there in the shower when you can. I haven't found a perfect solution to get rid of those problems but if he likes doing then he doesn't mind and enjoys seeing/hearing/feeling you react when he hits spots.

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