So I'm getting the impression that my bf expects me to entertain him all the time, or be someone I'm not. Like one time before he got home from work I did the dishes, cleaned, and was trying to call and get us internet connected, and he came home and later was like "one day you'll realize that you have to go the extra mile for me and when I get home from work you'll be waiting for me in sexy lingerie with the house completely spotless, with food made for me, you'll get there one day" ... Him saying that kind of rubbed me the wrong way. And anytime I get on my phone he complains, but I only do usually when he's playing video games or something, so why does he care. And he always says things in a subtle way but what he really is saying is: "you should be more fun, you should be funnier, you should be more spontaneous, you should be this and that"... I am not the funnest girl in the world, I'm not very funny, I'm kind of in a rut in my life, and I am not going to try extra hard just to please him. Any advice?