(This is very long and i apologize) My fiances best friend just found out for the fourth time his wife has cheated on him. I was working until closing so my fiance went over to check on his best friend. Well apparently the guys wife came back to the house and started screaming at my fiance saying he needed to leave and go fix his own relationship with his lying cheating whore (me) and when I was driving home I was on the phone with my fiance and he starts questioning me and saying she obviously felt the need to tell him something she knows. Instead of going to their house and beating the shit out of her I typed this message to send to her.

I'd like to see you go through what I do on a daily basis and find the time to be a lying cheating whore Alyssa. I'd like to see you be willing to go through what I do just stay with your husband. Try to find the time to cheat with a tracking device in your car and on your phone. Try to find the time to cheat when you're husband has access to your phone records. Try to find the time to cheat when you have to sit in front of a camera and get questioned everytime you leave for a few minutes to go to the bathroom or to make food. Try to find the time to cheat when the house you live in shows what time doors are opened and closed. Try to find the time to cheat when your husband is the only person you're with. Try to find the time to cheat when your husband has your password to your email and Facebook and you're not aloud to have any other type of socail media. Try to find the time to cheat when every facebook message and notification gets sent to his phone and he opens them before you even get a chance. Try to find the time to cheat when you are not aloud to hang out with your friends alone and when you do see them your husband is with you. Try to find the time to cheat when you ask your husband to do something as simple as go get coffee with new friends you've made and be told no. Try to find the time to cheat when you have to send pictures of you in your car alone to your husband to show you have no one with you when you leave work. Try to find the time to cheat when you have to send pictures of your work schedule and clockin-clockout slips. Try to find the time to cheat in a box that you can't get out of. Do you think you could because I sure as he'll can't and I don't want to. I have never cheated on Alex. I have lied to him and done things behind his back in the past that he knows about but I have never cheated. If you look at my Facebook pictures there has not been a single picture of just me posted in months. My profile picture has never been anything but him and I since we started dating a year and six months ago. If you look at your Facebook profile pictures it's of you at the club and you've maybe posted two pictures of your twin boys in the past few months. But go ahead and call me a lying cheating whore. I hope it makes you feel better about you cheating on your husband. What is this, your fourth time? Or is it just the fourth time he has caught you?

UPDATE: I have decided to not send her the message and instead have decided to have a long conversation with my fiance about how this relationship will never work if things don't change. I realize I am in a controlling and mentally abusive relationship. I truly do love my fiance and I don't want to leave which is why I have allowed him to treat me this way but I do realise I am a human being and not property that someone can just control. I will update again after the talk and let you know how it goes.

UPDATE: sorry it has taken me so long to inform you all about the talk we had, it's just been a mess with the holiday. So we did have a long talk and to sum it up I pretty much told him I was tired of having to do all of those things for him and that things needed to change. Well things have started changing already. He now let's me leave without having to take pictures, I don't have to sit in front of a camera, I don't have to show him my schedule or clockin-clockout slips, and I'm not being questioned daily when I don't pick up his phone calls. We both seem to be happier and the holidays were very nice at both families. I know that's a slim difference compared to the other things but he did tell me he's going to try to let the other things go. I haven't been able to make plans with my friends yet because they have been busy too but that's next on my to do list. Thank you ladies for being so helpful and somewhat supportive and I know if things start to get worse it's time to leave.