need help

I'm in a relationship for about 11 months now , lately we've been arguing almost every week , he wants me to do everything he says & I shall follow is rules but when I say do something he has a problem. He does what me to wear current cloths , he doesn't want me to party , he wants to be in control.  I feel like a dark cloud over my head . He never wants to post me on social media,he says it's not something he's use to so o said ok no problem I won't pressure you , but not he he's pressuring me to give him oral sex , he wants me to receive but not give. But our bond it amazing , we act like kids , best friends everything you can imagine but sometimes I feel like I'm in it alone . Should I let it go or keep trying ?