Are you a Submissive in the bedroom?

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If yes, how do you feel about it? 
I recently discovered that I am infact a sub who likes to be dominated, but I can't seem to get past feelings of shame and guilt about it.
Posting anon because, well, as you can see it's a sensitive subject for me.

Update: I guess the reason I feel shame and guilt is because I'm a sub that likes it rough, and I love spankings and choking etc. It feels so wrong like I SHOULDN'T like those things, and sometimes I wonder am I damaged for liking those things?? I don't know. Anyone else feel that?

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Being a sub is nothing to be ashamed of, what you like is what you like and there are millions just like you, I'm 100% submissive and proudly admit it

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I think I used to feel a bit embarrassed about being a sub but I've learned to embrace it. I definitely don't go around telling people lol. Only partners that I feel would be equally interested. But I just remind myself that I'm one in a million who also enjoys bdsm and if I'm safe and enjoying it with a consensual partner then that's all that matters.

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I think your ideas of sex center around vanilla relationships and in your head anything other than vanilla is "wrong"?

It isn't wrong. You like what you like. You are joined by millions of others :) there are even male submissives and female Doms (Dominatrixes)

Find peace in what you love. Stay safe sane and consensual. Don't be ashamed.

I find a lot of peace being a sub. It helps me to understand more about myself and trains me to simultaneously recognize mine and my partners needs and wants AND how to bend my will to my partner in a respectful beautiful way

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I enjoy both.  Being dominated is always great but sometimes when I'm really frisky I like to reverse roles and be the one to dominate.

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I'm submissive.  I would much rather someone else take charge in the bedroom.  I'm not totally sure why you would feel embarrassed or uncomfortable about that, though. Either you want to be in charge or you dont. You're either a Dominant or a submissive. Find yourself a guy who likes to take charge (or talk to the one you've got), and you're set.

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I'm both depends on my mood

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Don't feel bad. If anything tell your partner to switch it up. Maybe you dom over him. Plus being Sub doesn't make you less of a person. Personally I'm very controlling irl but in the bedroom I'm like tie me up Daddy!!

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I LOVE being his sweet little sub, doing any and all things he asks. I've asked him if it bothers him how willing I am, but he said it only turns him on so much more knowing that he dominates me and has full control over me sexually.
It's a beautiful power exchange.

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I'm a switch, i can do both sides but for my fiancé he loves me being submissive.

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always a sub. nothing wrong.

Are you a Submissive in the bedroom?

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