How often do you and your man have sex?

How long have you been together and how often do you have sex? I've been with my SO just about 2 years and it's dwindled down to MAYBE 2-3 times a month if I'm lucky. And today, I even offered a blow job and he tells me "no, they're not that great anyway" 😔☹️ like wtf. He never eats me out, I can never give him a blow job, and we rarely have sex anymore. Of course sex isn't #1 in a relationship, but it's definitely an important aspect and it's starting to take a toll. So what about you ladies? How's it going in the bedroom department?