Hate the words "body count"!!!

Kealey 🚨👮🏼🍝🏳️‍🌈🇨🇦 • Demi- Pansexual • wannabe randi • meatball head • Ex- Jehovah's Witness • Pro-CHOICE • pro-drugs • GAD & Depression • 16 years old • Polite Canadian until you piss me off •
Why can't we say, "how many people have you had sex with?" OR BETTER YET NOT ASK. Who cares if you slept with 1 person, or 40 people or whatever! That person who had sex with 40 people could've been with all loving partners. And that person with 1 found their life partner the first time.
So can we PLEASE stop using the words "body count".
I don't mean to be rude by the way, those words just sound derogatory to me.