So lately my boyfriend has been spacey and not really here with me even though we live together. The only time I feel him paying attention to me is when we have sex or he wants "cuddles". And tonight he was supposed to be playing magic with two of his friend and then pick me up from work by then calls me to tell me he's hanging out with his drunk abusing asshole of a friend and spending the night at the assholes girlfriends house and forgot our chill out plans after I worked..