Hey all glow readers,

I'm after some very blunt and honest advice maybe even reaching through the message and shaking!! And I know I'm at the right place for all of the above.

I've been in a relationship for 6 years (no children together as he has low sperm and after years of telling me he wants children has done sweet fa about it) I however have a 10 year old daughter who he loves and adores.

2 years ago my mother bought a house that I am paying her the mortgage back on. My partner has been on and on at me to do a grow room in the loft... After a few drinks I stupidly cracked and said yes but little did I know 2 weeks later he has gone and organised the whole thing and yesterday told me he's going to pick the plants up! I thought it was just a drunken talk nothing serious so I panicked and told him NO absolutely not! Well he's gone on to tell me I'm out of order, he's lost a load of money and will have to bin them and is really angry with me. I feel I have every right to change my mind and say no! I have a child in the house for Ffs and this house is in my mother's and my name. I feel I'm being bullied into it he keeps telling me if he gets caught he'll get a slap on wrist and nothing will happen to me yet he tells me not to research this online...

Unfortunately for ne this isn't the end of my problem. Recently he was given a big bag of weed from a "friend" to get rid of and it's been sitting in my cupboard for 3 weeks now (god knows what I'll get for that if I got caught with it in my house) he says he'll take the blame as it is he's but I'm not that stupid! But I am because I'm allowing this to happen! It gets worse my boyfriend has started taking cocain again around 4 times a week.. Yet I'm bang out of order!

I need the strength to leave him tonight but it won't be easy he won't let me go.. He's talked me into changing before but it's slipped back to this

(I dint take any drugs by the way I hate them ever since my father was a drug addict and alcoholic)

Advise please!!!!