sex doesn't feel good the first few times?

Question

So I lost my virginity on Wednesday and just had sex again yesterday. I understand the first time is more painful and less enjoyable but it was the same for the second time too. Is that normal? When does it start being more enjoyable and pleasurable than painful ?

Answer

I hated sex for the first 3 weeks. It just hurt for me. I see people say that it should never hurt. But I don't think that's true. I love my husband and his presence really turns me on. So THAT wasn't an issue. Lube does help a lot anyway. My sister cried every time for 2 weeks, I told her that even tho she thought she was wet enough that she should still use lube and it would help.

Answer

The first 5-6 times weren't very enjoyable for me either. It does get better with time especially when you start to figure out what you like.
You need to do a lot more kissing and marking yourself wet before he decides to go in though. 
It'll help a lot. The more relaxed you are the better it is.

Answer

It's completely normal! I was so disappointed when after a handful of times it still was uncomfortable :( it'll get better, but it takes time and is different for everyone.

Answer

It should always be enjoyable even the first time. If it's not then you need more foreplay

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