Should I?

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My boyfriend and I want more kids but he wants to wait and I prefer now to get it over with. Recently I've been holding out on sex until I ovulate which is kind of setting him up. Should I continue the wait or just go ahead and have sex now??

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"Get it over with" - yeah you should probably wait. You shouldn't have kids just to get it over with, they're a huge responsibility. And your boyfriend clearly isn't ready yet so trapping him with a child isn't the best idea. Talk to him about it further and find some common ground, but don't do what you're planning on doing now. He will resent you and possibly even the child.

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I noticed a lot of people posted that when a man cums in a woman without her consent it is rape. I think that standard should go both ways. Trapping someone into being a father when they aren't ready is a recipe for disaster.

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get it over with? plus youre tryin to trick him into getting pregnant?  No way. You need to wait. hetting pregnant isnt a game or a chore.

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If he doesn't want kids right now then wait or use a condom.

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Im sorry if i cause you to feel shamed, cause i hate feeling shamed, but i think thats so terrible of you to do that to him and lie that way. I fucked a guy under the condition that he told me he didnt want to have a kid. Later on i found out he did and this breach of our trust really broke me down. I would feel cheap skated if i were to be played by you the way you are playing your husband. Hold off sex until u ovulate to get what u want....?....a kid...? Really how hurtful and terrible that is! And thats a huuuuuge deal for which he is responsible emotionally, spiritually and, if you wanted to prove it, legally! Dont do that, if you are actually even asking any one of us genuinely what we think!

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girl are you seriously trying to get pregnant when he said he wanted to wait? I understand where you're coming from because it's your body and you're the one who has to be pregnant but imagine if the roles were reversed

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