Should I lose my virginity to him?

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So I'm 17 and I've been "friends with benefits" with a friend of mine since the summer. We've done everything but have sex and obviously he wants to and it almost happened but I just don't know. My friends all tell me to do it and get it over with but he's a HUGE FUCK BOY!!! (Even though he won't admit it) losing my virginity isn't a big deal but I wanna be able to say that I lost it to someone who actually gave a crap about me but at the same time I just wanna get it over with plus I kinda like him now (yikes....) SOMEONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

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Wait until you find someone where you think thats its not just getting it over with.

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I lost my virginity when I was 17 to my ex and it was a big mistake he was an ass and I can't even believe I was with him for a year. Losing your virginity is and should be very special. If you are not ready DON'T DO IT. Don't let your friends peer pressure you into doing that. I get that you've practically done everything else with him, but once you do this, you can't take it back. Be smart about it. You will know if you're ready.

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Losing your virginity is a big deal. It may not feel that way now but it is. I'd wait to be with someone who actually cares for me if I were you.

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Don't do it!!! I dated my ex for 2 years and didn't have sex with him because I didn't feel like doing it. He always pressured me but I wasn't mature enough. When I was 17 I broke up with him. After that, I met a guy I loved a lot and finally had sex, at 18. I am proud of myself for not having sex just because I was being pressured and only doing it when I wanted to and felt comfortable ❤️

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I accidentally clicked yes but I meant to click NO! Wait and do it when you are truly ready and with someone who truly cares about you. If you do it with him, more than likely you will regret it later.

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I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my ex and he was a dick but I was stupid to do it at that age and tbh all boys are immature and stupid at that age so it was a big mistake. I really regret it. Don't do it if you don't think he cares about you cause you don't want to regret it after like I did

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The person you lose your virginity to doesn't have to be the person you marry... but you don't want it to be someone who just wants sex from you. I think you would just regret it later... i would say don't... I would say wait until you are in a relationship with someone you care about

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Do what you feel is right. Not everyone thinks a virginity is a big deal. I know I didn't.

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I lost mine when I was 21. There is no rush. You're gonna remember your first and the first should be with someone who feels the same way you do. Don't just do it cause everyone around already has. You are a unicorn to your generation. embrace it and protect yourself, especially from fuck boys!

Should I lose my virginity to him?

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