Sex doesn’t always have to be sexy

I noticed there’s a lot of young people on here who either haven’t had a lot of sexual experiences or have had none at all. And I wanted to let you all know something I wish I knew when I first started having sex. Sex does have to be nor will it be sexy all of the time.

What do I mean? Sometimes you’re gonna be in the ugliest panties/bra you own. Sometimes you might fart or queef or gag(loudly maybe). Sometimes you’ll bump heads, elbow each other, accidentally pull hair. You might be sick and have the stuffiest nose. My ex and I sometimes told each other jokes during and would be laughing the whole time. And that’s all okay, we’re all human. So don’t beat yourself up if you have sex and it’s not this big romantic, sexy scene. You’ll be able to enjoy it all the same.