Sex Esteem ☹️

Ok, so my boyfriend and I are having some sexual problems. A little background info : this month is our one year anniversary, he’s 22 and i’m 20, we both love each other completely. The thing is i’ve been on birth control for maybe 6 months of our relationship. During those months my urges to have sex have dropped. I’m just not interested in having sex as much anymore. And it’s become the only rocky situation in our relationship and i feel like it’s all my fault because i’m the one who pushes him away. I need some tips, help and answers ☹️

(and btw i have stopped taking birth control just to see if that’s been the problem)