Uhhhh help?

Ive been in a lesbian relationship for almost 5 months. We're both 18 and of legal age. She asked if she could do some sexy roleplay with her friend over text. She told me she didnt have feelings for her and it was for fun so I agreed. She then texted me asking if she could be a dom to her other friend and it wouldnt be roleplay over text. She said she doesnt have feelings for her and it wouldnt end up sexual (not even kissing). I agreed and now she never texts me or never wants to do anything with me anymore. She says shes either busy or just not in the mood. What should I do? We're long distance and I dont want to seem controlling. I only know bdsm from like porn so Idk. Should I trust her?