Should I send it?

Question

My bf wants me to send him a video of me masturbating but I’m nervous. Since we aren’t married I don’t know if I should 100% trust him with the video. We’ve taken videos of us having sex but this one has my face in it and I hear horror stories about videos like this getting out. Should I do it? I know he wants one really bad and he’s understanding when I say no.

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Don’t do it!!
It’s NEVER a good idea to take pictures or videos of you that you wouldn’t want being out in the world!
No matter how much you trust and love someone, their phone could get stolen or hacked and then your pictures/video could get into the wrong hands!
Plus, if you are under the legal age of consent (18 in most places) it could be considered child pornography!
Please don’t take or send any sexual pictures or video, for your own safety!

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If you don’t feel 100% okay and comfortable sending it, then don’t. You don’t have to send him ANYTHING. Maybe you can just do it for him in person. Optimally it would be great if you could trust people but reality is you never know whether you’re married or not. Do NOT let him pressure you into sending content you aren’t comfortable with. Even if you have been together 20 years. If you don’t want to. Then don’t 💘

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dont do anything you are not 100% comfortable or confident in doing. if he gets mad than he ain't the one for you

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nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!

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I’ve done it, not with my face in it, on snapchat because I’d be able to know if he saved it. He didn’t. But if you’re uncomfortable, don’t do it. And don’t put your face in it.

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I’ve done pics/videos before but never ever ever put my face in them. It was on snapchat so I know they don’t exist anymore. But keep your face out of them just in case they somehow get out and no one will know it’s you (if you do it). Someone asked to do one with my face but I refused cause I’m not comfortable with that

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I think it’s always safer doing it in person, online is always dangerous whether it’s him or even hacking, you can’t be too sure. If you decide to, then don’t put your face in it. However I think if he wants it he’ll have to come see you himself.

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If you want to take it, take one without your face!!!!!!

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Do not do it, I understand you really think you can trust him now but boys are boys and when they receive pics or videos like that they are gonna tell there friends and it’s just going to get around. Don’t do it you will really regret it, if he wants to see you do it that much do it person!😊

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