No pleasure from masterbating?!?! Help

Question

I’ve tried multiple times to feel pleasure out of masterbating but it just doesn’t happen. Penetration with my my finger does absolutely nothing and I can literally only fit two fingers. And anytime I play with my clit it just makes me feel like I have to pee or something. 
I’ve never had sex and probably won’t for a while but in the mean time I want to play with myself. Is that so wrong? Why does my body hate me? Lol Not a legit question. I was kidding. 
But does anyone else have this problem? If so do you have a solution? I can’t buy toys or vibrators or anything like that cause I’d have to hide them.
Sooooo... you know my dilemma. Any tips???

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U have to be aroused in order to cum.

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I had this problem but I solved it by getting myself super wet BEFORE playing w myself by watching porn and then playing with myself while still watching the porn and then ab five min later I cum lol. Try that ! (TMI I rub my clit, fingering does nothing 4 me)

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hey girl, i have the exact same problem. i don’t find any pleasure from rubbing my clit and if i do finger myself it’ll feel good for a couple of seconds and then i’ll be back to feeling nothing. /:

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Make sure you get turned on first, and I’ve found penetration doesn’t do much for me when masturbating. Also in regards to that feeling like you have to pee, it may be that youre stimulating the clit too much. Try going more gently or rubbing without touching it too directly. Like I’m really good at using my hand on myself but I’d always stop my boyfriend when he tried to use his hand because he was touching it directly and pushing too hard, and I got that having to pee feeling

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the biggest issue you're having is that your BRAIN isn't turned on! you can't just poke your parts while they're dry and expect it to feel nice! i do highly recommend watching porn or reading erotic fiction to turn on your brain and your body, and then use your hands to figure out what feels nice!

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your not alone fingering does nothing for me either try putting some olive oil if u have it i know weird but it actually works a small amount on your clit helps get it stimulated the think of something that will turn you on and kerp thinking that same thought if you dont prefer porn that is. do a slow circular motion then work your way up. it will happen you just have to find what works for you try a different finger i can only orgasm by rubbing my clit with one certain finger on one hand if i try the other gand doesnt work. also if you have long nails try not to let it touch your clit cause you will scratch it and it will hurt like crazy when in shower.

No pleasure from masterbating?!?! Help

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